“Betray” is the breaking or violation of trust, confidence and self-morality. Nobody likes people who betray or backstab. When this happens, the trust bonding between the relationships ends instantly.
“Trust” is a hard thing to just give someone, and it is an even harder thing to handle when someone breaks that trust. When trust is betrayed to a serious extent; the affected individual can suffer from psychological betrayal trauma.
The fact is that, all of us have a betrayal nature inborn within ourselves, it is only whether one decides to use if to hurt others or not. When Betrayal is done – the outcome is always NEGATIVE. Someone around oneself is definitely going to get hurt. There is no reason ever to betray for a positive issue.
Betrayers usually betray people because of sudden greed or fear that something might happen to them (i.e. One’s human instinct of self-protection). We are born by nature to think of ourselves first and then of others. The betrayer doesn’t care of what consequences might be brought about to the victim’s feelings. Thus causing the betrayer to lose his inborn morality and conscience in return.
Researches show that Betrayal is found most commonly amongst “love issues”. Then ranking second is “Business relationships”. I personally have encountered a betrayal relationship, but instead of looking at the impact negatively, I have learnt my lesson and betrayal has helped me grow up to not be naïve anymore and that I have to really open my eyes to see that if one’s born with a kind-heart you won’t choose this method to face your problems. If one chooses to do so, it’s either because of sudden wrong made decisions or the person didn’t deserve your love in the first place as he/she was not serene at heart.
“Trust” is a hard thing to just give someone, and it is an even harder thing to handle when someone breaks that trust. When trust is betrayed to a serious extent; the affected individual can suffer from psychological betrayal trauma.
The fact is that, all of us have a betrayal nature inborn within ourselves, it is only whether one decides to use if to hurt others or not. When Betrayal is done – the outcome is always NEGATIVE. Someone around oneself is definitely going to get hurt. There is no reason ever to betray for a positive issue.
Betrayers usually betray people because of sudden greed or fear that something might happen to them (i.e. One’s human instinct of self-protection). We are born by nature to think of ourselves first and then of others. The betrayer doesn’t care of what consequences might be brought about to the victim’s feelings. Thus causing the betrayer to lose his inborn morality and conscience in return.
Researches show that Betrayal is found most commonly amongst “love issues”. Then ranking second is “Business relationships”. I personally have encountered a betrayal relationship, but instead of looking at the impact negatively, I have learnt my lesson and betrayal has helped me grow up to not be naïve anymore and that I have to really open my eyes to see that if one’s born with a kind-heart you won’t choose this method to face your problems. If one chooses to do so, it’s either because of sudden wrong made decisions or the person didn’t deserve your love in the first place as he/she was not serene at heart.
When one always betrays, they automatically lose trust with their fellow mates and confidence in one-self also instantly degrades. Following symptoms are they will become quiet and won’t like talking too many people. They will become very sensitive on certain issues. Before they make any important decisions they will clearly think about the results or the purpose of their counterparts.
Since they themselves have betrayed others; they will also lose trust that others have for them as they will be afraid of being betrayed by their closest loved ones or business partners. They then only believe in themselves. Betrayers usually have loss of control over their emotions this way and become afflicted and angry very easily. Eventually, they will gradually disengage from the community!!!
Since they themselves have betrayed others; they will also lose trust that others have for them as they will be afraid of being betrayed by their closest loved ones or business partners. They then only believe in themselves. Betrayers usually have loss of control over their emotions this way and become afflicted and angry very easily. Eventually, they will gradually disengage from the community!!!
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